OCD---

Lots of people have different ideas about what OCD is-- Obsessive Compulsive Disorder--
In My Humble Opinion I believe this is quite common because it manifests in individuals in different ways-- Many have repetitive behaviors others are "hard wired" to a routine or schedule- - - -  I got the chance one time to have a thoughtful conversation with and otherwise "typical" person who was diagnosed with OCD--   
We had been discussing a little boy who was absolutely insistent about going down a slide 3 TIMES in the park where his brother played soccer EVERY TIME. Rain or snow noon or midnight this kid would not get in the van unless he was allowed to slide--The parents were having a big problem with it mainly because they did not understand the behavior but also because there was concern over health and well being by factors like temperature or appropriate lighting etc...  the person I was talking to was almost shocked at the parents behavior because she totally understood the actions of this little boy . She described  like this; In this little ones head it is the same as a superstition. for this boy if he did not slide down the slide 3 times something bad would happen to him or his family. She was so matter a fat about it and explained that barring "self injurious" behavior  it was bordering on cruel for the parents not to indulge him.

I understand the need to guide your children and make decisions and choices for their well being and sometimes  to try to shift away from this type of behavior. Our kids need to "melt" into the existing world where most people have little or no tolerance for anyone who is "different"  however everyone of us is unique . There comes a point to make a decision whether we will just let this OCD prevail or try to quash it.

My personal opinion is if it is a benign behavior like sliding down a slide 3 times -0- whats the problem -- if it is invasive of other peoples space or it can be harmful then you need to re-assess. There are medications and as well as therapies that can help and sometimes the behavior will run its course --For our situation I have found that if I indulge Dak his one "obsession" at the onset of the day that the rest of the day is much easier-and sometimes I can him to do things he wouldn't ordinarily do -- Its a great pay off !