Words to live by---

These 3 things remain true to the "Journey of Autism". Anyone or everyone can advise you;

ULTIMATELY you MUST go with what you feel is right. "GO WITH YOUR GUT."

Once you have arrived at this decision; "NEVER GIVE UP"!

LASTLY "Ya Gotta do, what Ya Gotta do!"



Sunday, May 7, 2006

PROM 2006

AFTER MISSING THE EVENTS AT THE END OF THE SCHOOL YEAR IN 2005 [the leg--you know!] I HAVE REALLY TRIED TO GET DAKOTA TO GET INVOLVED-- OR AT LEAST INTERESTED .  FOR THE MOST PART HE STILL IS VERY RESISTANT AND OFTEN TIMES SEEMS TO SUFFER FROM A LOT OF ANXIETY

YESTERDAY WAS THE "PROM"  THIS FUNCTION IS SPECIFICALLY DESIGNED FOR THE CHALLENGED KIDS IN THE MANY DISTRICTS IN OUR AREA-- 2 YEARS AGO THEY HAD IT AT A  RATHER SMALL OFFICE WITH A MULTI-PURPOSE BUILDING. THE EVENT WAS A NICE GESTURE BUT REALLY FAR FROM ANYTHING EVEN Recognizably  CLOSE TO A REAL PROM. 

WELL THIS YEAR I GIVE THEM BIG KUDOS -- I HAVE TO SAY THAT THIS IS PROBABLY THE BEST THING THAT OUR KIDS HAVE EVER BEEN A PART OF ! THIS WAS AN UPLIFTING  EXPERIENCE-- AND IT HAD ALL THE "BUTTONS AND BELLS" THAT MADE IT A REAL PROM---WITHOUT ALL THE BORING DETAILS  JUST IN GENERAL THERE WAS  A BEAUTIFULLY DECORATED HUGE HALL WITH A LIVE ROCK BAND, DOOR PRIZES, Souvenirs  BALLOONS AND FOOD.

THE MOST IMPORTANT THING WAS THE KIDS -- THEY WERE ABLE TO DRESS UP AND HAVE AN EVENING THAT WAS EQUAL TO ANY "TYPICAL " EXPERIENCE. WHAT I SAW WAS  A HUGE ADVANCE IN MANY OF THESE KIDS' SOCIAL SKILLS.  I EVEN SAW MY OWN SON RAISE HIS HAND AND MOTION TO A COUPLE OF CLASSMATES WHO JUST ENTERED THE ROOM TO COME OVER AND SIT WITH HIM--WOW! THESE KIDS WERE ON CLOUD NINE AND THE PARENTS IN ATTENDANCE  ALL FELT THE SAME---THIS WAS STELLAR

NEEDLESS TO SAY THIS WAS  THE EVENT OF THE SEASON   ONE THAT WILL GO DOWN IN MY BOOK AS UNFORGETTABLE AND EVEN TODAY I SAW DAKOTA RECOUNT THINGS THAT HAPPENED LAST NIGHT-- WITH A SMILE!

THANK YOU TO ALL OF THOSE WHO MADE THIS EVENT HAPPENED YOU MADE A LOTS OF KIDS VERY HAPPY AND TO TOP IT OFF  THE PARENTS  FOR ONE NIGHT HAD AN EVENING THEY THOUGHT WOULD PROBABLY NEVER HAPPEN---

THEIR CHILDREN GOING TO PROM 2006!!!!!