You Can't Put a Cast on His Head!

I think the title says it all--- over the course of this journey thoughts fill my head probably on an hourly basis-- getting to the computer and posting them is another battle in and of itself. This is one of those thoughts I have  had probably a hundred times; just never got the time to write about it.

Years ago, Dakota broke his leg and we struggled with all the ramifications about it including it happening at school and he didn't want to go back , the fear that he would break his other leg , the scars from the surgery,the ambulance and hospital  etc. etc. Ultimatley the end result was that his leg would mend and he would be 'ALMOST" AS GOOD AS NEW. That being said the end result was less than perfect but it served the purpose a leg was designed to do on the human body.

The leg was pretty much a mess; a compound fracture which required surgery and rods and pins and a CAST. When a person who has a cast on goes out in public it evokes mostly positive empathetic / compassionate responses--people see it and they respond by either sharing their own experience or with well wishes for their temporary disability -----------
When a person walks out in public with an intellectual or developmental disability----It is a different story--the looks, the jeers, the judgement the lack of acceptance.
Personally I don't get the difference but its probably  because I live in a world where Autism is present every minute of every day. I see it being no different than a broken leg in one way--neither malady was intended.

When some one suffers a mental disorder most the world has a hard time accepting it; treating it the same way as a broken leg-- Look I CANNOT PUT A CAST ON HIS HEAD! Mental,Intellectual or Developmental disabilities are viewed as taboo. People are scared of them and in many cultures it is an embarrassment or often considered a curse--Those people who suffer with those types of disorders are kept behind closed doors, institutionalized or worse even abandoned or killed.
We cannot ask a doctor to drill into the brain and fix it--true it is an area we don't how to handle or what to do. Fhere has been 100's of years of study about mental disorders but it remains in my opinion the most difficult to diagnose and certainly the one most illusive to fix or even repair. Short of therapy {for those who can participate} and DRUGS  we cannot go in an transplant a brain , we cant remove the affected area {like slicing off a part of a liver and letting it regenerate } and most of all we CANNOT PUT A CAST ON THE "broken part of the brain".

It will be light years and most certainly long after Dak and I  have left this existence before there will be any solutions to things I have written about; I can only hope that my continued griping about awareness and acceptance will filter thru to at least a few. To plant the seed that Autism and many other mental disorders are not the fault of the person and that they are like any other human living on this earth.  All they want is to be loved and accepted as a part of the patchwork in any Family and/or community.  

Stop and think before you make a judgement -- remember you have your own "warts" and maybe the person you are making an opinion on, needs a CAST OF THEIR HEAD!