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I HAVE HAD THIS SWIRLING AROUND IN MY HEAD  FOR DAYS AND HAVE FINALLY DECIDED THAT I HAVE TO SPEAK OUT ON THIS-----I HAVE TOO!!!! IN THE PAST WEEK I CAME UPON AN EMAIL FROM A MOM WHO IS ON ONE OF THE ONLINE SUPPORT GROUPS WHO RECENLY WENT THROUGH A DIVORCE.  OK THATS NOT UNCOMMON BUT WHAT THE JUDGE AND ONE OF THE ATTORNEYS DID IS-----

I AM SO PISSED OFF BY THIS I FEEL THAT MY BLOG WILL HELP ME WORK THROUGH THE EMOTIONS AND GIVE ME A SENSE OF RELIEF BY EXPOSING THESE PEOPLE FOR WHO THEY ARE. I AM FOR THE MOST PART A REASONABLE PERSON WHO ABIDES BY THE LAW OF OUR LAND AND I RESPECT THOSE WHO ENFORCE AND ADMINISTER IT. JUDGES IN PARTICULAR ARE SUPPOSED TO BE PILARS OF OUR COMMUNITY AND RESPECTED INTELLIGENT NON-PARTIAL INDIVIDUALS. NOT IN THE CASE OF COMMISSIONER RICHARD D HUGHES-LA COUNTY CIVIL COURT IN POMONA  OR                            ATTORNEY KAREN V ANDERSON OF CLAREMONT CALIFORNIAWHO ATTEMPTED TO SEPARATE SIBLINGS  ON THE SIMPLE FACT THAT THE AUTISTIC SIB MAY HAVE A NEGATIVE IMPACT ON THE NEURO-TYPICAL SIB.   YES THATS RIGHT FOLKS THIS MOM WAS IN DIVORCE COURT APPROX 9-2003 AND THE JUDGE AS WELL AS THE ATTORNEY LISTED ABOVE FOUGHT TO SEPARATE SIBLINGS !AND SUCEEDED  FOR A PERIOD OF ABOUT A YEAR--      MOM FINALLY GOT THEM BACK TOGETHER AFTER ANOTHER COURT BATTLE AND THEIR PERMENENT PLACEMENT IS STILL UP IN THE AIR. 

WHAT KIND OF CRAP IS THIS??? WASNT IT 1965 WHEN  CIVIL RIGHTS WAS PASSED INTO LAW???DISCRIMINATON ,SEGREGATION, INTOLERANCE AND STUPIDITY IS ALL I CAN SAY.

AS A MOM OF AN AUTISTIC INDIVIDUAL I CAN ONLY STRESS HOW "SILENT BEHAVIOR OF INTOLERANCE " HAS PERMEATED THROUGH OUR SCHOOLS COMMUNITIES AND WORLD. I HAVE SEEN TEACHERS OF NEURO-TYPICAL KIDS WITHOUT WORDS PURPOSELY AVOID OUR KIDS SETTING THE EXAMPLE FOR ALL THE CHILDREN TO FOLLOW BECAUSE AFTERALL IF A ROLE MODEL EXHIBITS THAT TYPE OF BEHVIOR THEN IS OK??? RIGHT???? THE FACT OF THE MATTER IS WE ARE ALL DIFFERENT AND WE HAVE TO SHARE THIS EARTH. THE ONE PERSON YOU TURN YOUR NOSE UP TOO MAY JUST BE THE PERSON WHO CAN PRODUCE A SOLUTION TO ONE OF YOUR INADEQUECIES.

I DONT ASK PEOPLE TO EMBRACE OR EVEN INCLUDE MY SON IN THEIR LIFE ALL I ASK IS THAT WE ALL SIT BACK AND ASSESS OUR OWN DEFICITS AND REALIZE NO MATTER HOW PERFECT WE THINK WE ARE ; WE ALL HAVE SOMETHING THAT WE ARE NOT SO GOOD AT ; SO TOLERANCE IS THE KEY !WE ARE A COMMUNITY ALL DIFFERENT AND THAT IS WHAT MAKES EACH ONE OF US UNIQUE . BASIC SIMPLE HUMAN KINDNESS .

AND OH YES COMMISIONER RICHARD D HUGHES AND                           ATTORNEY KAREN V ANDERSON  I AM SO ASHAMED AND APPALLED AT YOUR THOUGHT PROCESS OR BELIEF SYSTEM. TO ALLOW YOURSELVES TO ENTERTAIN FOR ONE MOMENT THAT IT IS OK TO  SEPARATE SIBLINGS BECAUSE OF A DISABILITY FOR EVEN ONE MINUTE IS WRONG. I AM SORRY        I DO PASS JUDGEMENT ON YOU   AND THAT IS VERY UNUSUAL FOR ME!