Words to live by---

These 3 things remain true to the "Journey of Autism". Anyone or everyone can advise you;

ULTIMATELY you MUST go with what you feel is right. "GO WITH YOUR GUT."

Once you have arrived at this decision; "NEVER GIVE UP"!

LASTLY "Ya Gotta do, what Ya Gotta do!"



Monday, February 27, 2006

SWAMPED WITH PAPERWORK

CANT HELP MYSELF  HAVE BEEN PRE-OCCUPIED WITH PAPERS FROM THE ATTORNEYS--  HAVE HAD A COUPLE OF THOUGHTS ABOUT OTHER THINGS I WANT TO POST ON THE JOURNAL BUT HAVE A DEAD LINE TO MEET SO UNTIL THEN WILL  CONCENTRATE ON PAPERWORK!!!

I DONT GET WHY THE SCHOOL DISTRICTS DIDNT RESPOND TO MY INQUIRIES ABOUT DAKOTAS FALL -- AND TO NOW HAVE TO BE REDUCED TO TALKING TO A LAWYER AND HAVING THEM PUSH THIS STUFF IN THEIR FACE WHEN TO ME IT IS SO OBVIOUS THAT THEY DROPPED THE BALL --OH WELL

MORE SO WHATS IMPORTANT IS DAKOTAS QUALITY OF LIFE . HE HAS SO MANY CHALLENGES AHEAD OF HIM AND TO DEAL WITH THE AFTERMATH OF THE FALL AND THE FACT THAT HIS LEG AND FOOT IS STILL NOT RIGHT AND MAY NEVER BE RIGHT AGAIN. WHAT I HAVE TO CONCENTRATE ON  IS NOT FOCUSING ON THE IMPERFECTIONS OF HIS  LEG AND FOOT WHILE HE IS AROUND . HE SOAKS THAT INFOMATION UP AND PERSERVERATES ON THE FACT THAT HIS FOOT IS NEVER GOING TO GET BETTER. IT BREAKS MY HEART TO SEE HIM BE SO EMOTIONAL ABOUT IT-- I HAVE JUST STARTED A NEW APPROACH TO POINT OUT  THAT ITS OK TO NOT BE PERFECT AND WE HAVE TO ACCEPT CHANGES IN ALL PARTS OF OUR LIVES -- I  MAKE A CONCERTED EFFORT TO USE EXAMPLES EVERYDAY ABOUT HOW THINGS CHANGE AND WE  HAVE TO "GO WITH THE FLO"  SOMETIMES THINGS WILL CHANGE BUT THAT DOESNT MEAN WE DONT STILL USE OR RECOGNIZE THEM WE JUST HAVE TO REALIZE THATS ITS DIFFERENT AND DIFFERENT IS OK.

 

 

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